Nowadays, many people will make friends with you because you have money or may be you can give advantages to them... So, according to many people, “True friendship should not involve money…”
Friendship is considered to be the most transparent relationship that a person can ever have in life. It is the most precious relationship that a person can ever be gifted with. In true friendship there is no self involved because one always feels for a friend from the heart. Thus matters like money should not come in between friendship. It is evident that whenever there has been money involved in friendship, somehow it has created confusions. Friends should always remain devoid of matters which can create any kind of misunderstandings and money is one such matter which can surely make a relationship bitter. True friendship is a mental and spiritual connection between two individuals and monetary matters can only cause a problem in the healthy being of this relationship.
On the other hand, friends can help each other out in difficult situations and this also can involve financial situations. If I had enough money and my friend was struggling in financially problem, then I would certainly help them out.
But, if a friend took advantage of my generosity and kept demanding money from me, then that I'd know that they weren't a true friend. I'd never make that mistake though because I'd only ever lend out money to people that I believe would not abuse the friendship, which means that I would be reassured that money was not the foundations of the friendship. You do have to be careful with money and yes, some people will try to take advantage if you have lots of it. No friendship is perfect. Friends will argue and there may be many problems but it's getting through these problems, sticking by each other and helping each out in times of need that bring love and sincerity to a friendship......
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