Today, the topic that I will discuss is “Heaven and Hell?” May be you will curious that what am I talking about, Heaven and Hell? Actually in this topic, heaven or hell is representing a marriage. Marriage is an institution in which interpersonal relationships (usually intimate and sexual) are acknowledged by the state, by religious authority, or both. It is often viewed as a contract. Before married, we need to think careful whether both of us is suitable for each other or not. After married, we need use our heart to organize it.Heaven and Hell just like a mirror. It is opposite, if not good, it is bad.
Many man said that “Marriage is hell for them”. But, is it true?? Actually not all the marriage is hell... it just depends of how you organize your marriage.
For an example: there is something happened in their marriage, but both of them just know how to point each other, this marriage will be never least for long time. On the other hand, if both of them realize that it happened already, keep pointing each other also useless. So, they together find the method to solve it. It will be an advantage for their marriage. They together face the problem, it make them more treasure of their marriage.
In fact, successful couples have the same number of disagreements as couples who divorce. Even more interesting, research shows that all couples disagree about the same
basic issues - money, kids, sex, housework, in-laws, and time. The difference between successful and unsuccessful couples is how they handle these differences.
Successful couples disagree in a way that makes their relationship stronger. They also have other skills, knowledge and attitudes that help them build and maintain happiness and satisfaction.
The good news is that anyone can learn to do it better and smarter. Couples can unlearn the behaviors that destroy love and replace them with the behaviors that keep love alive.
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